It takes effort and hard work to make and keep relationships. It doesn’t have to be a romantic relationship; it can be a relationship with your family, co-workers, your job, or even with yourself. The more you understand the situation, the easier it will be to let go of any attachment you have. What relationships do you need to work on accepting or just plain let go? Ask yourself if the person or situation adds any positivity into your life. If the answer is no, then it’s time to let it go so a better person or situation can come in. This is not easy and can be painful, especially if you are looking at yourself, but in order to live a happier fuller life, you have to do the nasty dirty work. If you are looking at your relationship with yourself, what aspects of yourself can you live with and accept that is just who you are and what parts can you change and replace with more positive actions? It’s time to give yourself some love this coming new year, you deserve it more than anyone else.